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You Know You Have RA When…

You Know You Have RA When…

We know that the typical signs and symptoms associated with a diagnosis of rheumatoid arthritis include joint stiffness and swelling as well as a number of different positive laboratory test results. However, there are also signs and symptoms that we experience every day that aren’t part of a doctor’s work-up. We wanted to know more about your everyday life with RA, so we asked our Facebook community to respond to the statement, “You know you have RA when ______”. Here’s what several of you had to say:

You feel older than you actually are

  • You’re 53 and feel like 90
  • Being 31 and feeling like 80
  • When you can’t keep up with the group and feel like you need a cane for stability, and you are only 48
  • Fatigue…pain…most people don’t understand it’s not arthritis that grandma has
  • You feel older than you are

Pain takes over your life

  • When your joints hurt so bad you could cry and everyone wonders what’s wrong with you-you look fine
  • You feel like your body is being ripped apart and your family thinks you’re crazy
  • When everything hurts and you are limping and as you are walking into work someone says “how are you?” And you say with a smile “fine…how are you?”…And smile and keep going
  • You can’t do what you want to do from the pain & fatigue
  • Everything hurts all the time
  • You just can’t walk without being in excruciating pain, and that was just the first step
  • Your feet feel like the bones are crumbling. And you can’t hold your head up due to neck pain. And your hand and feet are blown up
  • You can’t sleep due to pain and you wake up stiff and in pain
  • My fingers swelled like sausages
  • Your joints are so painful and you can’t stand anything to touch them
  • When you have pain every part of your body, can’t move off the bed and nothing gets done
  • Can’t move without being in excruciating pain

Your body has mind of its own

  • Your mind tells you what to do but your body can’t
  • It takes 20 minutes to get off the couch and your 2 year old tries to help
  • When you get out of bed in the morning and your knees and ankles refuse to bend
  • You feel like a puppet masters toy
  • When your leg feels broke
  • You go to lift something light & your hand and wrist give out
  • Your toes and fingers all point the wrong direction
  • You want to cry from frustration that your body is doing this to itself

Being exhausted is a way of life

  • You feel like you are coming down with the flu – all the time
  • You feel tired-all the time
  • Getting washed and dressed for the day wears you out
  • You can sleep until 2pm and still feel tired afterward
  • When you work in your house for one hour, and your body say and feel like it was a whole day
  • You feel like you’ve run a marathon
  • Even the thought of going on holiday wears you out
  • Being so tired 24/7. And everyday is a surprise as to what will hurt
  • You wake up in the morning and are already for a nap!!! The constant fatigue is about the worst
  • When you can’t get out of bed due to fatigue and exhaustion

You feel like a meteorologist

  • When you predict stormy weather by flares
  • Your joints become a weather barometer
  • When you can feel weather approach

You start missing your independence

  • When the old people in wheelchairs and walkers ask you if you need help
  • Buying a bottle of pop & have to ask a stranger to open it for you
  • You haven’t had a date in 2 years, because you never leave your house

Planning the day is a challenge

  • You can never plan a whole day & actually be able to do everything on your list
  • You have to give yourself a shot and you dread it
  • When you have to plan your day very carefully
  • You need about 3 hours in the morning to feel better

No one seems to understand

  • You tell someone what you have, and they say, I have that in my little finger, and your like, ok yeah right
  • Someone says I have arthritis too…..not my kind of arthritis!!!!
  • You are 13 and all your friends are going to the pool and you can’t go because the cold water hurts to bad

What is it about RA that defines the disease for you? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments!


    5 years ago

    When you are afraid to commit to anything, even the thing you love most, because it may not fit your energy budget.

    5 years ago

    You are willing to give up some of your favorite foods if it means there is a chance for less pain and fatigue.

    5 years ago

    When someone asks where you have RA and you tell them everywhere.

    5 years ago

    You are 38 and your 60 year old mother in law says that you walk like a 90 year old.

  • Chris
    5 years ago

    When it takes years and many doctors and tests before you get diagnosed

  • Kathy Haynes
    5 years ago

    I am so tired all the time, never know till I get up what joints are going to hurt that day, being on my feet all day and cannot wait to come home and lay down, don’t have the drive or energy to get out and do life………

  • Mary K
    5 years ago

    When you’re forced to go on disability because you just can’t keep up anymore and give up your job of 26 yrs that you loved and was your purpose and your passion.. Now home grieving and depressed because RA has finally won the battle that you’ve fought for 33yrs!!!! I hate you RA!!!! Rant over!!

  • Debbie
    5 years ago

    I feel like I have just run a marathon while having the flu after falling off a 3 story building 🙁

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