Loving Yourself During a Flare
When an RA flare sets in, some people report being super hard on themselves or feelings of guilt. Why? Flares can make it almost near impossible to get daily tasks done, making it hard to feel productive.
Your favorite self-care stories and tips were amazing! We wanted to share as many as possible!
Self-care during an RA flare
Taking it easy: the chores can wait
“When I’m flaring, I take the easy way out as much as possible! Food is a great example: frozen waffles or cereal are okay for any meal. Takeout is ordered as long as it fits the budget. I use prepackaged snack bags for my son’s preschool snacks. And I don’t let myself feel guilty about any of it.”
“Ask for help, I do from my husband. Let the laundry sit an extra day or don’t dust. Whatever you need to do to take care of yourself for a bit.”
“I knit. It relaxes me and takes my mind away from the pain as much as possible. It also has the benefit of keeping my fingers and wrist moving and lessens the pain in them.”
“I either just sit in the quiet for hours or listen to music and color. Depends how bad the flare is and where.”
“Bath!! I bought my house for the tub that was in it (Jacuzzi) and when I’m flaring, it’s the best thing in the world!”
“A good movie or music, a soft blanket, comfy clothes, are definitely key for me, and having loved ones and friends close to keep me motivated and smiling.”
“I spend as much time in a heated pool that I can. Something about the low gravity seems to loosen my joints. I also plan ahead for flares and make big batches of soups that I freeze flat in freezer bags in individual portions. I just reheat on flare days.”
“Just a little me time and relaxation goes a long way.”
Self-care and self-love is the way to go
“I take that extra time to snuggle with our family dog.”
“Sometimes I need a really sad movie to have a good cry for someone else, but relieve the stress in my body during a flare… time to have a healthy cry, not a pity party.”
“I allow myself to be ‘okay’ with being sick and if things do not get accomplished, c’est la vie! I used to feel guilty if I needed to rest or take a two-hour bath, and now I realize how silly that is!”
“I walk gently, stretch purposefully and rest more often.”
“Put on my neck and shoulder warmer, light candles that are scented, comfy clothes and pre-made food.”
“We have an English cocker spaniel, Raffy. He always knows when I need a little TLC. He comes over and lays around me like a blanket.”
“Binge watch something on Netflix and get out the ice packs.”
“Sleep, fun TV show and a chilled mocha! I have been in a constant flare, so I have to take pleasure in the small stuff.”
“I love Epsom salt baths and heating pad in bed, it’s the best during the worst!”
“Listen to calming music and sit in my yard and listen to nature. I try to focus on my breath and visualize the pain leaving.”
“When in a bad flare, I basically try to keep distracted with music or computer games. If that doesn’t work, I will grab a blanket and try to watch a movie.”
“A walk in the sun when possible.”
“Nap or watch a happy movie that makes me get my mind off the pain in bed or on the couch with my best friends.”
“A good book, funny movie, and lots of rest!”
Thank you again for your incredible feedback! Continue to share your self-love tips with us! We love hearing them, and they can be so helpful for others looking for tips!
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