"Feeling defeated! Does anybody else have trouble trying to get their spouse/significant other to understand that your pain has gotten to a point it unpredictable if you will be able to work at least one out of three days per week? Don’t get me wrong, my husband has been very supportive of me and my RA, but it seems as though now that I mention resigning from my very part time position that all of a sudden he’s not quite as supportive. He has a good job and yes there will be some luxuries i/we will have to give up, but we are talking about a silly part time job vs my health! I shouldn’t feel the guilt that I do, should I? Just curious if anyone has gone through similar situation? I have applied for social security disability, waiting for my appeal to go through to next level....."