I'm so glad that you reached out, , and found our community here. It sounds like you are really going through a lot and hopefully the specialist can help you get some answers as well as a pathway to some relief! You have already done so much, it sounds like, between the work changes and the dietary changes - good for you!
I'm not sure if the specialist you're seeing is a rheumatologist, although it seems like it might be, so I wanted to share this article from one of our health leaders about what to expect at the first rheumatology appointment, https://rheumatoidarthritis.net/living/what-to-expect-at-your-first-rheumatologist-appointment
Unfortunately, as Daniel pointed out, what works for one person won't necessarily work for another, so we can't say for sure what would be helpful for you personally. That being said, it's always nice to get feedback and hear what's working for other people, just in case something resonates and you want to give it a try yourself. You mention a lot of pain/stiffness/etc, so I also thought you might appreciate this article with some of our health leader, Janeil's, pain relief therapies she can't live without, https://rheumatoidarthritis.net/living/pain-relief-therapies.
Hopefully these two articles can give you a starting point. Please, if you're comfortable, keep us posted with how you're doing and what you find out. And, of course, reach out here any time with any questions or if you need some support.
-- Warmly, Christine (Team Member)