Hi ! I do hope you are able to get in to the rheumatologist quickly, although I know the wait for that initial visit tends to be a long one!
Have you discussed your flare with your regular physician? He/she may be able to offer some suggestions for managing your symptoms during a flare. It may be an option to consider so you can get some relief!
As far as flares, they can vary in length depending on the individual. Here are some reader tips for managing flares that you might find helpful -- https://rheumatoidarthritis.net/living/community-feedback-what-helps-you-through-a-flare/. Also, here is another piece on managing flare pain, with community comments at the end of the piece -- https://rheumatoidarthritis.net/living/when-flares-what/. I hope some of the tips might give you some ideas to try.
Again, I hope that appointment comes soon AND you get some relief from the flare!
Best, Erin, RheumatoidArthritis.net Team Member.