Charlie27:
You ask several questions and all are important. However I will not be able to answer them all. but here goes.
Fatigue: I think that fatigue is common for those of us who live with RA.
Hands: My hands are usually cold. However I cannot say it is associated with RA. I also have diabetes and have have neuropathy as a result. I suggest you ask your physician. One thing I do for my hands is use a paraffin bath. I love the feeling of the warmth and the paraffin adds moisture to my hands.
School - Each of us are different and my RA is not the same as yours. However I was able to complete a doctorate in in four years going part time education at age 59 with my dissertation taking 10 months to complete. I know school can be challenging, but I feel certain you can do it.
Work - I suggest that you talk to your docotr about your hands. there are many jobs that do not require fine motor skills, but since I do not know your age I am not certain what your interests and aptitude might be.
If you are in college please go to the guidance office to ask for career counseling and your disability services office for modifications that might help you both today and in the future.
If you are in High School please talk to your guidance counselor. They can help advise about future and jobs. If you have difficulty contact your state employment agency and ask how to contact the local disability services agency. They help people locate and work in jobs that fit them. I believe they will try to help you find and be successful in all kinds of positions.
I realize I have not answered each question, but i hope I have helped. I wish you the veyr best good luck.
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