Fellow RA soldiers,
I’m new to having RA and as it has been increasing it’s affects I’m seeing that some of my challenges are that other people don’t understand what I’m dealing with and it’s hurting my relationships. Others don’t understand how my lack of energy affects my ability to invest in relationships, and why I’m not motivated to do things relationally that I used to, even though I wish I were. And they don’t understand that I wish I could be motivated to do so much more and invest so much more when my body lets me do less than what is considered minimum by others. I’m wondering if anyone knows of a book that I can give people in my family on this topic that will help them understand what someone with RA is dealing with and how they can interpret what’s happening so that it doesn’t destroy my relationships. Can anybody recommend something?