Hello Sonnysmom!!
Do you have a family history of RA or other A1 diseases? Mine did but I didn't know it at the time.
Ra can affect people in many different ways. Mine started with severe pain in my groin area(lower hips). It only lasted that day. Three months later it started in my knuckles in both hands, painful, puffy and warm--no burning. Months later, painful right hip and shoulder, then puffy, painful wrists, later again. Also very tired. Elbow pain came later.
My Rheumy took blood tests, my history, exrays and did a thorough physical exam. My next appt. he declared that I had severe Rheumatoid Arthritis.
I was dxd. with Juvenile Diabetes(type 1) when I was 3 y/o. I also had given birth to my first child shortly before I was dxd. with RA. Being pregnant and giving birth of course causes a lot of stress to a body. I was thankfully put on the necessary medications immediately.
I agree with Franki about seeing another Rheumatologist AND a Neurologist. Let us know the outcome please. Best wishes and healing to you!