Severe RA and treatments

, first off, I am sorry you and your husband are dealing with this. Watching a partner suffer is incredibly gut wrenching, I know.


I wish I had some magic answer for you, but, unfortunately, it can take a fair amount of time and a lot of trial and error to find the treatment that works best for each individual. I know. That's a pretty disheartening answer, especially when you're already feeling pretty exasperated by the treatment process.


Have any of those treatments brought your husband any measure of relief? I only ask because many individuals do experience (temporary) relief with treatments like prednisolone, but they sometimes have to stop the medication due to side effects or concerns over long term side effects from steroid usage.


Has your husband's rheumatologist been communicating well with you and your husband?


While OA does add some complexity to your husband's situation, it shouldn't cause that much of an issue in finding effective treatments.


It really probably boils down to what I wrote above -- it sometimes take time and trial and error. That said, having the patience and strength to endure that when you are hurting and in pain is easier said than done.


Please know you and your husband are not alone here! I know it can feel like no one understands what you are going through as a couple, but we have a large, diverse community that knows what it's like to be in your position.


Please don't hesitate to reach out if you have more questions or even if you just need a safe place to vent.


I hope the next treatment your husband tries does the trick and he starts feeling better asap.


Gentle Hugs, Erin, RheumatoidArthritis.net Team Member.

mewilbanks, Your concern for your husband really touches my heart. Too often it takes several attempts to find a good treatment. It is frustrating and can be saddening. Personally, one of the things that most frustrates me is how many weeks or months we must give each new treatment trial before we know if it can work. Perseverance is important. And the support of our loved ones as we persevere. I wish I could tell you when and what solution will come your way to give your husband relief. Your loving help and support are essential. Please share here anytime and look for those people sharing their success stories. I hope you also have a close friend or family member available to support you. With Hope and Best Wishes, Jo

He went to a new dr yesterday (non RA). After some extensive bloodwork it was found that two possibly three meds (non RA meds) are contributing to his fatigue and muscle aches and pains. Working to eliminate two and change one. Also bloodwork shows anemia which we knew about but no one addressed. And then there was one other personal medical issue in his bloodwork that had been contributing to the fatigue and muscle aches and pains. So I feel hopeful that much of this is caused by some of his other non RA meds. And once all of this is addressed properly. We may find out that it isn’t his RA or RA meds causing the bulk of his symptoms pains or complaints. Yesterday I learned not only the importance of communication but that doctors need to share information better. And that we need to ask more questions. And insist on better communication. So we have a new starting point while we wait to see if Enbrel works for him. Thanks for your thoughts and support.