160 Down, 20 to GoEver meet someone that you know, who looks at you once, twice then three times before they say hello? I had that...reactions3comments
Compassion Versus Pity and RAI think that most people dislike the feeling of pity yet instinctively respond to compassion. Why is that? They both come from...reactions11comments
Thankful for AgingAs Thanksgiving approaches, I want to reflect on an unusual part of life for which I am thankful: aging. They fear their...reactions4comments
SilenceAs I write this, it is 5:45 AM. I am up early with a pulsing backache. I did not sleep long, and...reactions5comments
Every Step I TakeMany people walk through the world without thought. They may notice a crack in the sidewalk or a large root in a...reactions6comments
A (Travel) Dream Deferred, Part 1"To travel is to live." --Hans Christian Andersen Last winter I was determined to take a big trip back to Europe to...reactionscomments
Wobble BobbleWe recently adopted a scary-smart dog. She picks up on the subtlest of cues and knows what’s what. She doesn’t stay distracted...reactions14comments
The Cheese (Ch)EaterI love cheese. I love it so much. And I can taste it right now as I write this: a rich and...reactions7comments
RAlationshipsBeing in a relationship is hard. Anyone who says they have it easy is either lying, or – well, nothing. Lying, that’s...reactions4comments
So Long, SandalsI practically live in my red, double strap Birkenstock sandals. I slide them on as soon as it's warm and dry enough...reactions7comments
Beware the Pharmacy Benefits ManagerIt’s been a long haul. Last year around this time I realized my current medication wasn’t working as well, that it’s effects...reactions12comments
When Do I Talk? What Do I Tell?Having a lifelong illness comes with a ton of unique trials and tribulations. There are things that we experience that most people...reactions2comments
There is a Light, Don't Let it Go OutMusic has always been an important part of my life. From as early as age 4-5, I remember my mom playing the...reactions1comment
Footwear Transitions and the SeasonsIt is important to transition our footwear from season to season to avoid some RA pitfalls...reactions1comment
Being Let Down by a DoctorWe all know the health care system is changing, and not for the betterment of patients. These days it’s all about reducing...reactions2comments
It Is Not Too LateYOU ARE NOT TOO OLD AND IT IS NOT TOO LATE! These words of encouragement and empowerment are part of a meme...reactions2comments
Unexpected HelpI admit that I can get feeling cranky and down about things. Lately, I’ve battled the pharmacy benefits manager and been let...reactions6comments
The Good LifeI was recently asked to reflect on how I have managed to live with RA for over 20 years, while being a...reactions2comments
The Treatment TreadmillWhen I was originally diagnosed with RA and began to consider, along with my care team, how to treat it, I had...reactions2comments
Failing ExpectationsIt can’t be helped, but I’ve done a lot of failing expectations in my life with rheumatoid arthritis. While I’ve worked hard...reactions16comments