, hello and welcome! I am glad you found us!
I think it's wonderful that you are learning what you can about your wife's condition.
I am not a physician and cannot provide medical advice or diagnosis, for your wife's safety. That said, she could very well be in a flare. RA is very unique to each individual, so I cannot say whether her RA will always be this active or not. Once treatment is started, many individuals experience a noticeable decrease in RA symptoms. Others may have to try multiple treatments and may experience limited relief -- it truly varies widely from person to person.
I would definitely write down any and all questions you and your wife have and also write down EVERY symptom she has been experiencing. Then, take those questions and the list of symptoms to the upcoming rheumatology appointment. This will help provide the rheumatologist with a clearer picture of your wife's RA so far and getting your questions answered can help you both as a couple decide what treatment options to consider.
Being newly diagnosed can be such an overwhelming time! I wanted to share one of my favorite pieces about being newly diagnosed. It will hopefully offer you and your wife some hope and honest insight into the journey you are embarking on -- https://rheumatoidarthritis.net/living/back-to-the-future.
Also, here's a good article on what your wife can expect at that first rheumatologist appointment -- https://rheumatoidarthritis.net/living/what-to-expect-at-your-first-rheumatologist-appointment.
Please know that neither you nor your wife are alone in this! Pretty much every member of this community has been where you or your wife have been. They get it and understand how daunting this diagnosis can be.
Please feel free to come back here anytime and ask questions. We will do what we can to answer them. And do keep us posted on how your wife's appointment goes, if you feel comfortable doing so.
Best, Erin, RheumatoidArthritis.net Team Member.