Sparklebright62, getting RA fatigue under control can be hard. Are you on any medications for your RA yet? It can be a bit of trial and error to find something that helps with your fatigue, if anything. While this article doesn't have many specific tips for managing RA fatigue, I thought you might find it interesting and you can check out the numerous member comments at the end of the article. You're definitely not alone in this! https://rheumatoidarthritis.net/living/morning-fatigue. I hope this helps and maybe you can try some of the tips members have tried for managing fatigue. I hope you get some relief and are able to enjoy time with your grandkids! Best, Erin, RheumatoidArthritis.net Team Member.