Hello!! I think I can understand where you are coming from. I am lucky to have been diagnosed very early on and was able to start taking medications right away. I think that it is because of my early diagnosis and treatment plan that my symptoms stay mild to moderate rather than severe. I have definitely had bad BAD flares to a point where I could barely eat/walk/move but when I am well managed with medication, my symptoms stay on the side of discomfort rather than pain. I get very stiff sometimes sitting or lying down which can make sleeping hard for me as well. I however feel very very lucky that I do not have severe symptoms like some others that I know. Always remember that everyone is different and that even if your symptoms are mild, they are still valid!!