Mourning What Could Have BeenIt seems that no matter how long I have rheumatoid arthritis, the grieving process never ends. Fifteen years ago, at the age of 22, I was given the news that...reactions2comments
Community Thoughts: How Much Do I Share About RA?Inspired by writer Kelly Mack's questions in a recent article:"I struggle with the question: how much do I share about my RA? How much can others handle? How much do...reactions4comments
Seminal MomentsWe’ve all had those seminal moments – instances where everything after that point changes. Maybe it was that moment when you knew you wanted to get married – or divorced...reactions1comment
I Can Do This!: RA AffirmationsWe all know the little blue engine that pulled the train up the mountain by saying to itself, “I think I can. I think I can.” It turns out that...reactions4comments
The Words We UseWhat’s your first thought when someone tells you they’re sick? What if they say they’re chronically ill? I ask this because describing such things to others is full of potholes...reactions6comments
What's up Doc?Among the many ongoing decisions associated with wisely managing Rheumatoid Arthritis, arguably the most crucial one is who to turn to for treatment. First you must decide which medical professional...reactionscomments
The Hows and WhysI’m a regular user of Twitter--I love being able to talk to other people who share my interests or, in particular, people like me who cope daily with chronic illness...reactions2comments
When I Get That Feeling I Want... Arthritis HealingThe stage was set for a romantic evening. The kids were spending the night at grandma’s. The house was blissfully empty and quiet, with the whole evening ahead of us...reactions6comments
Finding the right balanceOne of the many challenges we face as we move through the years managing a chronic disease like RA, is finding the balance between being vigilant about our health and...reactions1comment
Mommy, My Knee HurtsGrowing up, I learned early on that some families are plagued with health problems. When I was five years old my sister was diagnosed with Type I Diabetes, and our...reactions2comments
Understanding the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA)If you – or someone you love – live with a chronic illness, you may eventually need to take time off from your job to focus on a health issue...reactions2comments
Over-scheduled!A Greek food festival. A chili cook-off. A professional soccer game. A play with friends. A movie in the park. A trip to California. A weekend getaway with my husband...reactions7comments
Smashing BarriersWhen I graduated from college, I got a job in Washington, DC, and moved there with a friend. We took a day trip from the campus and visited a lot...reactionscomments
Mind ReaderHere’s a thing: expecting others to know we’re in pain if we don’t tell them. Here’s another: feeling frustrated or angry with them because they don’t. How can they know...reactions5comments
Prednisone: A Hairy SituationThis is kind of embarrassing and not very ladylike to mention and write about, but unfortunately it's a reality--a reality I'd rather not have to deal with, honestly. Once again...reactions11comments
Finally the Right Mix?After having the same rheumatologist for an entire decade, I switched doctors a little over a year ago. It was a bit scary to make the change, and I’ve gone...reactions2comments
Flying WheelchairRecently I’ve gone on a couple trips requiring airline travel. While I have no problem flying, my poor motorized wheelchair encounters a lot of turbulence. I’ve been flying more than...reactions3comments
Dressing for the occasionI have always enjoyed clothes. Shopping for them, selecting outfits, wearing them, etc. It may seem strange but the fact is RA effects everything associated with dressing. Years ago, I...reactions1comment
Community Thoughts: How You Spend the "Good Days"RA is not only painful, but can also take up a lot of time! We wanted to find out how people in our community spend time when it's not devoted...reactions5comments
Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad RAHaving rheumatoid arthritis means that there will always be days where it feels like I’ve woken up on the wrong side of the bed. It doesn’t matter how much I...reactionscomments