Hi Chic1,
I'm sorry to hear that your symptoms are causing you these challenges, and I can most certainly relate. I do encourage you to talk to your rheumatologist, as it's possible there is a treatment plan that could improve your quality of life. While pain medications are a part of some people's RA treatment plans, rheumatologists strongly prefer to prescribe medications that decrease the occurrence of symptoms, rather than treating them after they already take place. In fact, my rheumatologist won't prescribe pain medications for me, so nothing I am on is addictive or impairs my cognition ("numbs my mind").
Another important reason to discuss the severity of your symptoms with a rheumatologist is because RA is a degenerative disease, meaning that, untreated, it gets progressively worse over time. Once joint damage occurs, it cannot be restored. However, there are medications that can prevent it from taking place in the future.
In addition, some people are able to decrease their symptoms through non-medication methods such a decreasing stress, eliminating certain foods from their diet, and alternative therapies. While there has not been a diet or alternative therapy that helps every individual with the disease, some people have had very positive results.
Here is some information about treatment options for RA, including both medical and alternative therapies: https://rheumatoidarthritis.net/treatment/. Here is information about diet and nutrition: https://rheumatoidarthritis.net/diet-and-nutrition/.
Please continue to reach out any time you have questions or experiences you'd like to share. I hate that you're having a hard time, but am glad you're part of our community and hope we can be of some support to you.
Gentle Hugs, Tamara