Hello everyone it been about 5 years since I've been diagnosed. I will try to keep this short. I am divorced. I did it with lawyer so I lost everything. It was ok at time I was a hard working woman and could do it all on my own. I had problems with foot had surgery was off on disability from work for almost a year. I was fired. My RA in consent flare since My problem is my Dr wanted me to stay home but I was forest back into workforce. I can't go back to what I was doing. I am in so much pain brain fog etc so I don't make enough to cover bills. Have a teenage son to take care of I went for some assistance but since I work I'm not qualified also I was a homemaker for almost 20 years so I haven't paid in enough for disability I'm scared because my RA meds not controlling. I am worse everyday. Not I have multiple lumps under my arm. I am scared I can't afford a day off if it gets even more serious. I work for myself now. So I can work 6 to 7 hours a day seven days a week I make almost enough but not quite. I will figure this part out. But what do do about the future when I can't manage even that. I don't have a caretaker lost friends with the divorce then illness. Most days I don't wear a bra can't hook it and underwear I can't get them off with stiffness to use the bathroom. I was a middle class woman with all the good things as seen on tv lol. Now I'm a hair shy of a bag lady Thanks for the vent. I know most of you get it. But any ideas how I can do this alone.