, I definitely hear your frustration. I also have multiple doctors who are responsible for bits of my overall well-being. Fortunately MOST of them share notes. My neurologist sends notes to my other doctors after each visit. Unfortunately, it's my rheumatologist who never shares information with any of my other specialists nor my PCP. As a result, it's my PCP who keeps tabs on the overall picture of my health.
I find that it mostly falls on me to keep track of things that occur between visits - tests, major health developments, increased or decreased symptoms, etc. I create a cheatsheet of sorts that basically says "since the last time I saw you, this is what has happened." I will also bring copies of test results and other reports to each appointment.
Some insurance companies will offer a service that a nurse coordinator can help to keep track of what's going on and even help to coordinate care between specialists. You might ask if this is something your insurance company offers.
Best wishes, Lisa, RA Team Member